You’re the Backbone of Everyone Else’s Life—But Who’s Got Yours?

Everyone counts on you.

You’re the go-to.
The strong one.
The one who always knows what to say, what to fix, what to handle.

In business, in family, in your community—you hold it all together.

But here’s the question no one asks you:

Who’s holding you?

Who sees behind the leadership?
Who touches the part of you that’s tired of being the one everyone leans on?

Being the Anchor Has Made You Emotionally Adrift

When you’re the foundation for everyone else, there’s no room for you to wobble.
No space to fall apart.
No chance to say, “I need.”

So you stopped asking.
You stopped needing.
You started pretending your capacity was infinite.

But now?

You’re resentful.
Disconnected.
Lonely—even in the arms of someone who loves you.

This is the hidden grief of being high-functioning:
No one sees your collapse until it’s already happened.

Real Support Doesn’t Come From Surface Solutions

You’ve tried therapy. Coaching. Reading the books. Journaling. Meditation.

But those tools live in the mind.

What you need now is for your body to be held.

Not in theory. Not in talk.
But in deep, somatic presence—where you don’t have to lead, explain, or fix a damn thing.

That’s the work we do at Tantrikink® and at Nuna Holistic Retreat Center:

Creating sacred space for the ones who hold everyone else.

Practice: Ask Yourself the Forbidden Question

Take a moment, hand over heart, and ask:

“Where do I go when I need something?”

If the answer is nowhere…
If the answer is “I don’t know”…

Then your system is overdue for receiving.

You Deserve to Be Held Without Earning It

You’ve carried everyone else.
Now let someone carry you.

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