Cuddle Bliss

The art of exchanging safe non-sexual and conscious touch while at the same time we learn and practice conscious boundaries.

“Anything that promotes feelings of love and

intimacy is healing; anything that promotes isolation,

separation, loneliness, loss, hostility, anger, cynicism,

depression, alienation, and related feelings often lead to suffering,

disease, and premature death from all causes”

(Dean Ornish, Love, and Survival, p. 29).


As human beings, from birth, we crave connection, and thrive when we feel connected and cared for.  Science is proving over and over again how powerful conscious touch is for our development. As many scientists report, “lack of physical affection can actually kill babies” has been reported based on numerous scientific observations through history.  Especially recently, technology has shown us how physical touch actually impacts our brain, nervous system, hormones, and at the same time our perception of life and the psychology to thrive during happy episodes of our lives or tough ones.  

It is important for us to experience connection through touch, and we know how healing it truly is, especially for people who don't yet know how to receive or give conscious touch and are scared because of so many fears that hold them back from experiencing such bliss.  The key to experiencing conscious touch is to create a safe space and mutual trust. To create these elements we must be in alignment with our own boundaries, and the boundaries of everyone else in this sacred space.


How will your life be when you have clear boundaries and feel confident about them?

How will your life be when your “NO” means NO, not maybe?

How will your life be when you stop being manipulated by others because you said “maybe” instead of “NO”?

What would it mean to own your YES and NO with ease, bliss, and joy?

How will your life be when you embrace the “art of redirection” instead of “rejection”?

How will you feel when other people honor your guilt-free “NO”?


In this event we will learn:

  • How to listen and align with our body's wisdom.
  • How our true YES and NO feel within us.
  • How it feels when we lie and dishonor ourselves when we mean NO and give a YES for an answer.
  • How to let go of manipulation by closing the MAYBE door that leave us open to others demands, shames, guilts and egocentric requests.
  • How to truly feel so damn good, guiltless and confident about saying NO to others and saying YES to yourself, your body, your desires, your dreams, and your life.
  • How to let go of the fear of rejection and learn a simple tool that helps us feel good about others taking care of themselves by saying YES to them and NO to us.
  • How to feel safe in our own bodies while hugging, cuddling, chatting, dancing, eating or just having a great time.


When you are clear with your “Yes” and “No”, you learn to trust yourself even more and create a safe space for yourself, creating a delicious life.

Beyond all the power of learning and establishing boundaries, The Cuddle Bliss Event is a sacred and safe space for connection with other like-minded people to explore safe non-sexual and conscious touch and communicate boundaries.

During these fun and joyful practices, we will get to learn the 11 Cuddle Party rules created by Reid Mihalko and shared by Monique Darling in her book Beyond Cuddle Party, plus other tools to create healthier, stronger, and safer boundaries.

Be ready to meet yourself in your authentic Yes/No, meet like-minded people, dance, cuddle, hug, snuggle, and play (whichever of these activities you are a “Yes” to).

Questions and Answers:


Is there any nudity or sexual activities involved in this event?

No, there is no nudity at this event. No, there are no sexual activities at any of our public events.


Is this event a Tantric event?

Yes, it is.  Tantra has been marketed and promoted heavily for the breakthroughs it creates in the intimacy and sexuality realms, and unfortunately, some people have lost focus on the entire scope of what Tantra is.  With certainty, we can say that by living a Tantric life you will experience an incredibly intimate and sexual life founded on deep soul connection. With that being said, we can also say that great sex life is a byproduct of living the fullness of what Tantra is about.  Our focus is to give you an experience of you meeting your fullness, and from that place, you are invited to create the relationships you desire.


Is this event for singles only or couples only?

This event welcomes both singles and couples. This is not a dating event; everyone gets to meet like-minded people who are exploring and learning about Tantra, conscious touch and boundaries.


What if we come as a couple and don't want to switch partners during the whole evening or during any activity?

We love to create safe space for couples in which they can practice deeper connection and at the same time learn even more from themselves and each other.  Couples have the freedom to choose to stay partnered in activities together the whole evening, or, if they choose from a place of safety, security, and confidence, to change partners during the variety of exercises such as eye gazing, energy dance, conscious touch, etc.


What if I have a medical condition?

At registration you will be given an intake form, so please inform us of any medical condition or allergies you may have, so we can be conscious and make sure we create a space for you to feel safe to participate.  At the same time, we invite you to have with you any medication you may need. There will be movement activities such as dancing, jumping, shaking etc. so please participate at a level you are comfortable with, making sure you are always safe.


What should I bring or wear?

Bring comfortable clothes, the room gets warm when we do movement activities and cooler when the air conditioning is running and we are doing more stationary activities. So bring an extra layer to wear if you have a tendency to feel chilly.  We offer pillows, blankets, hot tea, healthy snacks, and fresh fruit for breaks.


Can I bring friends?

Yes, please invite friends - the more the merrier!


How often does this event happen?

It happens only once every 3 months, so join us this month otherwise you will have to wait over 90 days.


What if I cancel at the last minute, will I get my money refunded?

No, we don't offer refunds because we have limited seating and your space could have gone to someone else. Thanks for understanding!


Is this event available for private groups?

Yes, it is. We can facilitate this event for private groups (minimum 8 people)  as long the organizer has attended any of our previous workshops or has done private work with Lucia Gabriela - email us at to coordinate your private event.


I have another question, how should I reach out to you?

We love questions, they help us to serve you better and create a fantastic experience. Email us at



Events facilitated by Lucia Gabriela are integrative, holistic, and inclusive. Lucia Gabriela and her co-facilitators strive to facilitate a sacred space for their participants founded on honor, respect, compassion, gratitude, and self-empowerment. This sacred space enables participants to explore what their soul has called them to awaken, claim and embody.

Events are a fuse of a variety therapies and practices, such as Tantra, Shamanism, Psychology, Neurobiology, BioNeuroEmotional Therapy, Coaching, Integrative Nutrition, Somatic Emotional Therapies, Integrative Body De-Armoring, Reiki, Integrative Energy Therapy (IET), Qi-Gong, Therapeutic Kink, Cranial Sacral, Shiatsu, Acupuncture, Reflexology, Therapeutic Massage, Crystal Sound Therapy, Soul Dance, Esotericism, Meditation, and Yoga.

Events are designed to address participants as a whole rather than fragments.

Events are beyond humanistic dogmas, fundamentalisms, doctrines, extremism and ego-centered philosophies.

At our events, you will experience FREEDOM to awaken SELF infinite wisdom and you are invited to question it all. We welcome your authenticity.

These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. Consult your physician before beginning any exercise program.


Facilitators Bio

Lucia Gabriela helps individuals and couples to master their purpose, life, relationships and intimacy with themselves and others.

Her passion is to create a safe and sacred space for people to deeply explore many aspects of themselves, purge emotional and/or sexual traumas that are holding them back from manifesting what they desire, heal their inner child, embrace their shadows, connect with their higher self, reconnect with their own body's wisdom, align with their true essence, live their higher potential, and master their sexual life in all realms. They can then create their life with awareness, maturity, self-responsibility, radical self-love, and full commitment to exploring their sexual and spiritual evolution.

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